As a gardener I've often joked that there are some weeds whose roots go
as deep as hell. Spiritually, there is a root which grows from the
depths of hell: it's called bitterness.
Bitterness is a
condition of the heart which generally comes from a deep hurt or
disappointment. It’s often brought on by a bad experience with someone
or something and it becomes a root which is fertilized by
dissatisfaction and regret.
For bitterness to spring up,
there has to be an intentional decision to set aside the grace of God
that we are to extend to others - this provides the fertile soil needed
for the root of bitterness to grow (Heb. 12:15).
Bitterness is
a mindset or stronghold within us which puts up barriers to
relationship with God and other people. It turns a hurt into a platform
for vengeance and it seethes underneath the surface of poise, waiting
to pounce like a roaring lion. Bitterness is a motive which lurks in
wait to take opportunity to justify oneself at any cost. Medical
science suggests that bitterness leads to depression, cardiovascular
problems and a weakened immune system. It’s a consuming sickness of the
soul which spills over into the physical body, but there is a certain
cure in our loving Savior!
Repentance, forgiveness and grace
release us from the bondage of bitterness: forgive self, forgive others
and extend grace to destroy the root of bitterness! Completely repent
of and release thoughts of vengeance, self-justification, unforgiveness
and regret! Replace those thoughts with the goodness of God and His
Word - this retrains the heart and mind in God’s grace and love, and
chokes out bitterness. Grace extended not only destroys the enemy’s
opportunity to plant bitterness in us, but it melts the heart of the
person who is bitter against us and others.
Tend your garden: pull up the root of bitterness today and move forward in your life in Christ!
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