There have been times in my life when I've
kept my mouth closed on an issue that upset me, but I was seething below
the surface with anger and frustration. Or worse yet, I discussed the
problem with a few close friends and
kept a fire of irritation brewing inside of me with the winds of gossip.
If there was a checklist for things that are the opposite of love,
these two items would be on it: seething and gossiping!
1Cor
13:7 says "love bears all things." That means 'to cover with silence'
while taking it before the Lord. There's a difference between putting a
blanket on something to smother or silence it, and suppressing it so it
smolders and seethes under the surface. Suppressing isn't dealing with
a problem, it just covers it and turns the toxic fumes to the inside of
a person. There is the grave danger of moving into bitterness when we
soak in seething.
There is no condemnation to the person who
seeks the counsel of a beloved Christian friend in a discreet manner.
However, the person who is seeking justification for their seething
feelings will take their issues to many people and begin a circle of
dis-content. If you find yourself at this point it's a necessity to get
on your knees before the Lord and ask Him to cleanse you of the ill
feelings and motives and help you to walk in love. Dis-content is like a
pair of glasses one wears which changes the joy of the Lord into a war
zone.
Handle problems quickly so the enemy cannot infest your
heart with dis-content. Rid yourself of feelings of irritation as you
sit before the Lord and get His perspective. If you have these negative
feelings you cannot also have the joy of the Lord - these things block
out the clarity of God's voice and word in your life.
There
are some situations in life that only God can correct - some of them
have to do with our issues and some have to do with the issues of
others. Remember that you have the Holy Spirit to convict you of yours
sins, not the sins of the rest of the world. You may be able to discern
the sins of others, but God has to do the convicting.
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