There have been times in my life when I've 
kept my mouth closed on an issue that upset me, but I was seething below
 the surface with anger and frustration.  Or worse yet, I discussed the 
problem with a few close friends and 
kept a fire of irritation brewing inside of me with the winds of gossip.
  If there was a checklist for things that are the opposite of love, 
these two items would be on it: seething and gossiping!  
 
 1Cor 
13:7 says "love bears all things."  That means 'to cover with silence' 
while taking it before the Lord.  There's a difference between putting a
 blanket on something to smother or silence it, and suppressing it so it
 smolders and seethes under the surface.  Suppressing isn't dealing with
 a problem, it just covers it and turns the toxic fumes to the inside of
 a person.  There is the grave danger of moving into bitterness when we 
soak in seething.
 
 There is no condemnation to the person who 
seeks the counsel of a beloved Christian friend in a discreet manner.  
However, the person who is seeking justification for their seething 
feelings will take their issues to many people and begin a circle of 
dis-content.  If you find yourself at this point it's a necessity to get
 on your knees before the Lord and ask Him to cleanse you of the ill 
feelings and motives and help you to walk in love.  Dis-content is like a
 pair of glasses one wears which changes the joy of the Lord into a war 
zone.
 
 Handle problems quickly so the enemy cannot infest your 
heart with dis-content.  Rid yourself of feelings of irritation as you 
sit before the Lord and get His perspective.  If you have these negative
 feelings you cannot also have the joy of the Lord - these things block 
out the clarity of God's voice and word in your life.  
 
 There 
are some situations in life that only God can correct - some of them 
have to do with our issues and some have to do with the issues of 
others.  Remember that you have the Holy Spirit to convict you of yours 
sins, not the sins of the rest of the world.  You may be able to discern
 the sins of others, but God has to do the convicting.

 
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